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Pink Playshop: Spanking Hot Times

Posted by Gravity On May - 19 - 2013


Friday, June 7th, 2013 – 9pm to 10:15pm Another fabulous playshop coming your way! Every Pink party launches with a playshop free for party goers. This month you will be guided into the world of spanking! Spanking Hot Times! It’s time to redden the rump, thwack the tuckus, and paddle the posterior! Depending on your mood, a good spanking can be exhilarating, challenging, or calming. In this playshop we will cover all the usual ways to hit butts: soft, hard, with hands, with toys, viciously, or with decorum. In addition, we’ll look at hit zones, sensations, and creating the mood you desire. We want to make this a highly interactive workshop, so if you can bring your own spanking top or bottom! If you can’t, come watch anyways and we will make sure you have a good time.
	About the Pepper Mint: Pepper Mint is an event organizer and educator in the San Francisco area who focuses on polyamory and BDSM. In addition to hosting Mission Control’s fabulous Threshold play party, he has put on events like Poly Speed Dating and the OpenSF 2012 conference. You can find his writings at freaksexual.com. Also, he occasionally impacts a derriere…
All Pink Playshops are free with Pink party. The playshop takes place the hour before the party begins. Doors open at 8:45 pm Mission Control events are for members only \| Become a member, it’s free and instant. No alcohol will be served. This is a private event. 21 and over only (we check ID!) A PAL is required. See our PAL page for details. 8 pm – 9pm – Pink Drinks located at Laszlo Bar 9 pm – 10:15 – PrePink Playshop at MC 10 pm to late – Pink! Party at MC

Pink, Workshops

Pink!

Posted by Gravity On April - 16 - 2013

A San Francisco ORIGINAL!

The ever popular and intimate Pink party is back Friday, May 10th at Mission Control!

Playshop: 9pm to 10:15pm
Pink Party: 10:00pm to 3am
(Please arrive before midnight)

We’re inviting all our allies & friends to join in and relax into a mellow, intimate night of conversation, dancing, & playful exploration.

Pink is Mission Control’s house party, where you can really be yourself. A lot.

Hope to see you there!

Membership: You must be a member of Mission Control to attend. Membership is free and instant. Click here to become a member. You should also consider becoming an Ally. 2011 Allies get into Pink and many other events for free. Click HERE for details.

Cost: $25 Advance | $30 At the Door | Allies are free but please RSVP

Dress Code: n/a… you can leave your costumes at home and just come all gussied up or even dressed down. We’ll be happy you’re there no matter what you wear!

Vibe: friendly, low key, relaxed. Pink is pansexual, queer, poly, kink, vanilla, straight, lifestyle, and fetish friendly.

NOTE: to attend this event, you MUST arrive and leave with a responsible partner, your “PAL” for the night. You don’t have to be a couple, but you and your PAL are responsible for each other during the party.

As always BYOB & PAL required. This is a private event. 21 and over only (we check ID!) No alcohol will be served.

Pink is a monthly party that occurs on the 2nd Friday of each month.

Pink

Pink Playshop: Get Your Ass In Gear

Posted by Gravity On April - 16 - 2013


Friday, May 10th, 2013 – 9pm to 10:15pm Another fabulous playshop coming your way! Every Pink party launches with a playshop free for party goers. This month you will be guided through the ins-and-outs of anal sex! Get Your Ass In Gear Anal sex is one of the most common fantasies for people of all genders, and it’s much more fun when you have the info you need to make it work! In this workshop, you’ll learn about the three essential ingredients for easy and fun anal penetration, finger techniques to get things started, how to choose the right toys to add to your pleasure, what positions work best, ways to add anal fun to other kinds of sex, tips for pegging and anal intercourse, how to introduce the topic with your partner, and more! All it takes is a little knowledge and some practice to have pleasurable anal play. Whether you want to be the giver, the receiver, or both, come get what you need to add it to your sexual repertoire.
	About the Charlie Glickman: Charlie Glickman PhD, is a sexuality speaker, trainer, writer, blogger, and coach. He’s certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, and has been working in this field for over 20 years. His areas of focus include sex & shame, sex-positivity, queer issues, masculinity & gender, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual & relationship practices. Charlie is also the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. Find out more about him at www.charlieglickman.com or on Twitter and Facebook.
All Pink Playshops are free with Pink party. The playshop takes place the hour before the party begins. Doors open at 8:45 pm Mission Control events are for members only \| Become a member, it’s free and instant. No alcohol will be served. This is a private event. 21 and over only (we check ID!) A PAL is required. See our PAL page for details. 8 pm – 9pm – Pink Drinks located at Laszlo Bar 9 pm – 10:15 – PrePink Playshop at MC 10 pm to late – Pink! Party at MC

Pink, Workshops

Velvet May 3rd

Posted by Gravity On April - 10 - 2013

VELVET features music, games and cupcakes! DANCE in our mirrored booty room –with sexy pole action! QUIVER as you submit yourself to the masterful hands of our spanking mistresses! LUXURIATE in our glamorous, sexual playspaces! THRILL to the visual delights of our special dvd collection–featuring the Crash Pad series from Pink and White Productions - and our incredible live performances! VELVET is a party like no other!

Velvet Velvet is every first Friday of each month Friday, May 3rd \| 9pm-2am Mission Control events are for members only \| Become a member, it’s free and instant Cost: $20 Advance \|$25 at the Door \| Free for Allies, Please RSVP
Ever been to a hot and heavy queer dance party, found a sweaty little cutie, and wished you had some place to sneak away and get it on? Yea, we have that.
Brought to you by one of the founders of the legendary Girl Pile and located in the same venue as the infamous Kinky Salon. VELVET is a sensuous, intimate, private party for fierce femmes, badass butches, bois, transmen, transwomen, genderqueer and intersex queers. Whether you are shy, exhibitionist, experienced or have never been to a party like this before, we want YOU! Bring your toys, bring your friends!
~Live Performance By~
	iL Nocturnal iL Nocturnal is a bay area gem, making wet seats in queer and body positive spaces since 2006. Her stage record includes Fella Fem, the East Bay Kings Club, First Friday Follies, Seattle Debauchery and her current and primary stage-partner: Oakland’s Debauchery where she is both a performer and co-producer every 3rd Sunday at the White Horse. Winner of the 2009 SF Drag King Competition, she’s the hot body where sexual liberation & gender-fuckedness meets prefigurative anti-oppressive politics. Please welcome the dark, the sultry, the bay’s dirty little secret: iL Nocturnal.
~Music Provided By~
	DJ Durt DJ Durt is a dinosaur loving party DJ in the Gay Area playing the booty jams for the masses. You can catch her spinning at Ships in the Night (a transbay queer dance party) and with Sissy Strut.

Private event. 21 and over only (we check ID!). We don’t serve alcohol, so BYOB.
You’ve got questions? We’ve got answers. Don’t be shy–send an email to booking@missioncontrolsf.org

Velvet

Essence June 1st

Posted by Gravity On April - 10 - 2013


Essence in now an Alliance party! This means that all Allies may attend for FREE! Saturday, June 1st \| 9pm – 3am ESSENCE:BREATH 9pm-10pm: Playshop: TBA 10:15 pm: Party Navigation Tips for Newcomers 10:45pm: The Opening Ritual Doors close at 12:30
Join us for another Conscious Adventure into Embodied Sexuality Essence is temple for sensualists, tantrics, kinksters, and sexual explorers Dance, Play, Flirt, and Explore in our sensual Oasis Try out tools from Tantra, Sex-Positive culture, and BDSM Explore your own Edges and Roads to Expansion
Each Essence will bring you a fresh selection of teachers, leaders, and practitioners to create the vibe and guide the exploration in 5 Unique Rooms
		TEMPLE OF INNOCENCE – Dance, Flirt, and Play Music by DJ Dragonfly – Dragonfly constantly breaks the DJ mold, spinning an amalgamation of bass culture’s most embraced genres with a fearless twist on tempo. Dubstep, Glitch, Downtempo & Dub, Breaks, House and Drum n Bass are all fused to an urban/indigenous Third World vibe.
		APHRODITE’S HAREM – Have Your Sense Ignited and Your Body Adored This non-genitally focused play space allows for a different kind of sensual exploration. Each month we invite a new Tantric Educator to maintain the vibe and offer guidance and new techniques for deepening connection. Feathers & other sensual toys for exploration are provided but feel free to get creative and bring your own.
		CHAMBER OF THE DARK ARTS – Explore the Realm of Power, Surrender, and Intensity We are thrilled to welcome Cleo Dubois as our Dungeon Guide from 12:00 to 2:00 AM. Cleo is an internationally known BDSM educator and coach, who has shown thousands of people how BDSM play can deepen their connections and their relationships. Stop by and say hello, and learn about a whole new dimension of intimacy!
		TEMPLE OF DEEP EROS – Connect Deeply and Explore Sacred Sex Where sacred sex and intimacy happens. Our Gatekeepers (stationed at the door) hold the vibe of sacred temple space by discouraging chit-chat or voyeurism and offer a quick presencing ritual to you and your playmate(s) as you enter so that you can have the most ecstatic connections possible.
		SANCTUARY – Chill, Chat, and Relax A non-sexual chill space available for relaxing massage, quiet conversation, support, processing and tea. A 15 minute “Party Navigation Tips for Newcomers” is offered here at 10:15.
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Essence

Theshold: THWACK!

Posted by Gravity On March - 26 - 2013

Mission Control presents:
Cost for Members: $30 Advance \| $35 Door \| Free for Allies but Please RSVP Mission Control events are members only… become a member, it’s free and instant! Threshold: THWACK! Saturday, May 4th 9pm – 3am 21+, BYOB
Finally, a party devoted to the art of hitting people! Spanking, paddling, punching, kicking, flogging, whipping, caning– you name it, we’ll have it. Whether your favored tools of bludgeoning come from the kitchen or the sex toy store, or are just parts of your body, we’re into it. Bring your toys – leave with bruises!
Playshop 9pm -10:15pm
	Ergonomic Impact We are very excited to be hosting a pre-party workshop on Ergonomic Impact by Lamalani, who draws from seven years of self-defense training and 23 years as a percussionist to teach how to hit ergonomically. Learn ways to strike primarily using hands and some tools. This class will teach tops to pack a better punch and learn how to hit with maximum efficiency and minimal effort. Bottoms can learn how to receive impact play. Lamalani was International Ms Leather 2009 – check her out at lamalani.com.
Music By
	DJ Aural IncarnationDJ Aural Incarnation (of Bent, another awesome party) will be laying down hopping beats for your dancing pleasure. We got such positive feedback from his set at January’s ZAP that we begged him to come back for another round! Check out his Soundcloud here.
~ DRESS ~ While there is no dress code, we want you to dress to be seen! Wear your best duds, or something see-through, or almost nothing at all! As always, wait until you are inside before getting too exposed. Fetish, latex, leather, formal wear, sexy costumes, lingerie, uniforms, Steampunk are always welcomed!
Private event \| 21 and over with ID \| We don’t serve alcohol, BYOB Note that Mission Control has a buddy system known as the PAL system – you must arrive with someone else! Click HERE to read more about PALs… Find Threshold @ Twitter https://twitter.com/thresholdsf Fetlife https://fetlife.com/groups/57977 Facebook http://www.facebook.com/ThresholdSf Openly http://www.openly.us/group/threshold-bdsm-play-party-mission-control

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Kinky Salon 10th Anniversary!

Posted by Gravity On March - 25 - 2013


Kinky Salon Presents: The Best of Kinky Salon 10th Anniversary! Saturday, April 20th 10pm ’til Late Mission Control events are for members only \| Become a member, it’s free and instant Cost for Members: $30 Advance \| $35 at the door \| Cost for Allies: $25 Support Mission Control! Become an Ally for as little as $10/month and receive amazing discounts!
Rock your favorite costume! Relive your awesomest moments! Be sexy! Be stupid! Remember the good times! And raise a glass to another 10 years and Kinky Salon’s world domination! We know a lot of people will come out of the woodwork to celebrate, so please BUY YOUR TICKETS EARLY… We will almost certainly sell out.
Entertainers!! DJs all night long plus the infamous Midnight Cabaret!

DJ Fact.50 Fact.50 weaves a rump-shaking soundscape in the front room!	La Chica Boom The sensual stares, shimmies, & shakes of the La Chica Boom!	The Indra The Indra will captivate your imagination in mysterious ways!	Enormvs Indeed larger than life!
DRESS: Relive your favorite Kinky Salon! Pussy fest, Horny, Sweethearts, Eat Me, Dungeons and Drag Queens, Glam, XXX-Men, Prohibition, Apocalypse, Heavy Petty Zoo, Eurotrash, Wet, Land of the Lust, KS High, Whobilation, Halloween, Masquerade, Nymph-O-Mania, Le Sexy, Love In, Science Friction…. I know I’m missing some… we’ve had a lot of themes! Fetish, latex, leather, formal wear, sexy costumes, lingerie, uniforms, Steampunk are always welcomed! Street clothes, jeans, hoodies, t-shirts, sneakers, or sportswear will be turned away at the door.
Private event. 21 and over with i.d. We don’t serve alchohol. A PAL is required. Click HERE to read more about PALs…

Kinky Salon

Essence April 6th

Posted by Gravity On March - 21 - 2013


Essence in now an Alliance party! This means that all Allies may attend for FREE! April 6th Saturdays \| 9pm – 3am Essence: Renewal 9pm-10pm: Playshop: Keep Him Coming with Charlie Glickman 10:15 pm: Party Navigation Tips for Newcomers 10:45pm: The Opening Ritual Doors close at 12:30
Join us for another Conscious Adventure into Embodied Sexuality Essence is temple for sensualists, tantrics, kinksters, and sexual explorers Dance, Play, Flirt, and Explore in our sensual Oasis Try out tools from Tantra, Sex-Positive culture, and BDSM Explore your own Edges and Roads to Expansion
Each Essence will bring you a fresh selection of teachers, leaders, and practitioners to create the vibe and guide the exploration in 5 Unique Rooms
		TEMPLE OF INNOCENCE – Dance, Flirt, and Play Music by DJ Dragonfly – Dragonfly constantly breaks the DJ mold, spinning an amalgamation of bass culture’s most embraced genres with a fearless twist on tempo. Dubstep, Glitch, Downtempo & Dub, Breaks, House and Drum n Bass are all fused to an urban/indigenous Third World vibe.
		APHRODITE’S HAREM – Have Your Sense Ignited and Your Body Adored Guide: Dee Dussalt – Dee is a tantra yoga teacher & pleasure activist. She has helped hundreds of people connect to their radiant embodied selves. She fashions custom spiritual experiences from a variety of tantric modalities, including sexual-awakening yoga, guided meditation, bodywork,and sensuality and intimacy coaching for singles, couples, and small groups.
		CHAMBER OF THE DARK ARTS – Explore the Realm of Power, Surrender, and Intensity A safe and conscious opportunity for exploration & deepening into power, surrender, transcendence, & transformation as well as various types of sensation play. Demonstrations & short journeys are offered by our guides who also maintain a safe container for free play. Guided by Nelz and Kiyoshi.
		TEMPLE OF DEEP EROS – Connect Deeply and Explore Sacred Sex Where sacred sex and intimacy happens. Our Gatekeepers (stationed at the door) hold the vibe of sacred temple space by discouraging chit-chat or voyeurism and offer a quick presencing ritual to you and your playmate(s) as you enter so that you can have the most ecstatic connections possible.
		SANCTUARY – Chill, Chat, and Relax A non-sexual chill space available for relaxing massage, quiet conversation, support, processing and tea. A 15 minute “Party Navigation Tips for Newcomers” is offered here at 10:15. Guided by Lair and Patricia.
~Photobooth 11:30pm -1:30am~ Provided By
		Michelle Yoder Photography – Michelle has loved photography since she received her first camera as a child. It’s in her blood. Her job is to capture the beauty in the world around her. Finding beauty everywhere is the simple part, the hard part is capturing it perfectly. That’s the art of photography. Michelle photographs a wide variety of subject including weddings, pin ups, events, products, and family portraits.
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Kinky Salon Presents: Castle Cum-a-Lot Saturday, May 18th 10pm ’til Late Mission Control events are for members only \| Become a member, it’s free and instant Cost for Members: $30 Advance \| $35 at the door \| Cost for Allies: $25 Support Mission Control! Become an Ally for as little as $10/month and receive amazing discounts!
Sound the Horn! Prepare the halls! Oil the knights and grease up the wenches! Join us as Castle Cum-alot faces its foes at Castle Fuck in a grrrreat jousting tournament and epic sword fight! HUZZAH!
Entertainers!! DJs all night long plus the infamous Midnight Cabaret!

Comedienne Kate Willett	Burlesque Star Dottie Lux	Opera Singer Captain Sassypants
DRESS: Lords & Ladies, Kings & Queens, Dragons, Unicorns, Fairies, Maidens, Knights, Squires, Jesters, The Lady of the Lake, Horned Beasts, The Holy Grail, Excalibur, Magic, Mystery, Myth, Legend, Merlin, Game of Thrones, Monty Python, Peasants, Wenches, Witches, Warlocks! Fetish, latex, leather, formal wear, sexy costumes, lingerie, uniforms, Steampunk are always welcomed! Street clothes, jeans, hoodies, t-shirts, sneakers, or sportswear will be turned away at the door.
Private event. 21 and over with i.d. We don’t serve alchohol. A PAL is required. Click HERE to read more about PALs…

VELVET features music, games and cupcakes! DANCE in our mirrored booty room –with sexy pole action! QUIVER as you submit yourself to the masterful hands of our spanking mistresses! LUXURIATE in our glamorous, sexual playspaces! THRILL to the visual delights of our special dvd collection–featuring the Crash Pad series from Pink and White Productions - and our incredible live performances! VELVET is a party like no other!

Velvet Velvet is usually the first Friday of each month. But May is so nice that we had to have two! This is the June edition of Velvet. Friday, May 31st \| 9pm-2am Mission Control events are for members only \| Become a member, it’s free and instant Cost: $20 Advance \|$25 at the Door \| Free for Allies, Please RSVP
Ever been to a hot and heavy queer dance party, found a sweaty little cutie, and wished you had some place to sneak away and get it on? Yea, we have that.
Brought to you by one of the founders of the legendary Girl Pile and located in the same venue as the infamous Kinky Salon. VELVET is a sensuous, intimate, private party for fierce femmes, badass butches, bois, transmen, transwomen, genderqueer and intersex queers. Whether you are shy, exhibitionist, experienced or have never been to a party like this before, we want YOU! Bring your toys, bring your friends!
~Live Entertainment By~
	Alexandria Alexandria is a queer, kinky, leather, poly, switch, flirt femmenomenon, kicking dust off hearts on both sides of the bay. When she’s not warming loins around the pole here at Velvet as our house pole dancer, she can be found teaching queer partner dance, bellydance, erotic movement, and more in both group classes and private lessons, including at The Center for Sex and Culture. She fullfills her clients desires for initmate gatherings, social outings, benefits, weddings, performances, and more from the simple to the sublime.
~Music Provided By~
	DJ Durt DJ Durt is a dinosaur loving party DJ in the Gay Area playing the booty jams for the masses. You can catch her spinning at Ships in the Night (a transbay queer dance party) and with Sissy Strut.

Private event. 21 and over only (we check ID!). We don’t serve alcohol, so BYOB.
You’ve got questions? We’ve got answers. Don’t be shy–send an email to booking@missioncontrolsf.org

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Friday, June 7th, 2013 – 9pm to 10:15pm

Spanking Hot Times!

About the Pepper Mint:

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Sound the Horn!

Entertainers!!

Friday, May 10th, 2013 – 9pm to 10:15pm

Get Your Ass In Gear

About the Charlie Glickman:

Velvet

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ESSENCE:BREATH

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5 Unique Rooms

Threshold: THWACK!

The Best of Kinky Salon 10th Anniversary!

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